Hi Ready2Change, he mentioned in September he let the kids stay with their mom since they preferred that. Six months may establish precedence? He had both kids Friday, his son Saturday.
Maybe we should let the kids make the final decisions in all of this. Ask them if they would prefer if mom and dad got back together and stopped fighting and figured out how to be happy together. Ask them if we should give all the family money to lawyers or save it for them for college.
Anyway, I think you figure out what is best for the kids, and work toward that. Your relationship and guidance is what is important.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
