I am contemplating whether to invite H out for V day weekend. Sort of want to use it as an opportunity to say my piece and just be heard.
Pressure, pressure, pressure on a date that is all about "love" (or candy, your pick). I am still of the mind that while we all have so much we want to say in our sitch, often the best thing to do is sit tight until you have a person who is truly listening. Speaking now sounds like it might be only to make YOU feel better, not to fix anything. And that's what we are here for! So you can say all those things on your mind.
Originally Posted by wooba
“Whatever the future holds, I want you to find peace and happiness with or without me.”
I'll be blunt:
NO
Originally Posted by wooba
Or maybe I should just keep my mouth shut???
When in doubt (as we always, constantly are) this is the safest option.
Originally Posted by wooba
And then I think about where we would go. To a bar? A nice restaurant? I’d like to have a nice glass of wine. But I should probably not invite an alcoholic to have a drink with me? But why does it matter he’s going to drink anyway.
