Pommy: so sorry you are on this roller coaster. I too am on one but the only difference is my H is not saying anything positive about our M at all. I am starting to feel like it is hopeless.

I agree that you should not make a big financial commitment with him at this time. However, it sounds like things are moving somewhat in the right direction with the dinner and all. I am a newbie to all this though.

H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years