I have a question, just because I'm curious,...since you are adamant about a divorce from your h, then why did you come to a forum that is suppose to be helping those who are trying to save their marriages? I could see you posting in the Surviving the Big D forum since that is where those who are divorced or getting divorced and not seeking to save their marriages.
This is triggering. No one comes to this board wanting a D and I am no exception. I can't relate to those on Surviving the Big D forum because my H hasn't even been served yet.
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Are you hoping that by filing he'll suddenly wake up and return home? Are you using the divorce as a means to try to wake him up?
