Hi everyone,

Hoping to get some of your thoughts on a couple of questions.

1) How does one or is there a way to discern whether their spouse is actually in MLC or Bi-polar? Seems as though many
of the symptoms are the same.

2) I have been reading some of the stories on here about the pit falls of premature reconciliation. My MLC wife has not
displayed any intentions of doing so but I thought it would be prudent to have a plan laid out should this occur. Any
advice on how to handle such a sensitive situation? How do you turn them down without it driving them further into
the tunnel?

Thank you in advance.