W's MLC journey continues. Lately, W has been a bit more chatty. I went to a family birthday gathering with S11 and she said "tell everybody I said hi" before she left the house. She also said twice to me this last week "drive safely" when I left for work in the morning. Doesn't mean anything, I know, but it just seems odd to me.
This last week we took S19 to lunch for his birthday, the first meal we've shared together (M, W, S19) in many months. Conversation was normal and not uncomfortable. S19 had asked us individually that he would like that for his birthday. Considering W was was on anxiety meds and could not handle being in the same room with me right after BD, I was surprised she agreed so readily to S19's ask.
We are still separated and still seeking D through a mediator we have retained. I am in the process of gathering my financial docs to send to the mediator and will continue to do so. W confirmed with me that she is somewhat uncertain as to what she needs to send to the mediator and that she hasn't sent any docs along yet. I did not say anything to her in return.
I continue to detach, not pursue and 180/GAL. I feel like I'm progressing in each of those areas. I am looking forward to coming out on the other side and living my best life once again.
