Gerda how do you manage to still find the hope H will return after all this time? Something will happen with H and I find myself starting to doubt that he could ever want to come back.

The sticky idea is good. Finances are such an important part of all this, especially if you’re a stay at home parent.

I told him as I knew D6 would tell him anyway and I figured if I said something I could prepare myself for what he might try and pull. I’m now just a little more than 3 years in and yet I’ve only just realised that he’s been pulling this game for so long. Funny how we don’t realise these things until someone points it out.