Oh thank goodness! I made so many mistakes in that regard, I think we need a sticky here just for that, though honestly I am not sure I would have listened. I thought my H would come out of it. I still think he will someday,but I didn't realize that money is a separate issue and I didn't want to look "greedy"!!!!

I wish you hadn't told your H about the job but it sounds like you are making a good decision for you. Can you AirB a room in your house to make extra money for yourself?

I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.