Wow that is so crazy that he still hasn't been served! That's got to be miserable for you waiting for the shoe to drop! Hopefully your L can get it expedited. It'll be interesting to see how your H responds, he seems to be a bit smug right now thinking he's got you fooled about his income and his "extracurricular activities".
AS yes I am miserable knowing he thinks I'm stupid. 3 months now. It's killing me with every ridiculous excuse he gives the kids and I can't say anything. Ugh.
H updated his linked in account to reflect his promotion and my boss congratulated him. So that secrets out. My kids died laughing.