Oh yes, I've had a lawyer for a while. She's been phenominal.
I need to read up on gaslighting. I've heard the term but don't know what it means.
Im currently looking for a new IC; one that has some experience in abandonment issues. My last guy was good, but after a while, I wasn't getting a lot out of him.
Gaslighting is complex, but in a nutshell it is when someone tells another one that something isn't true that the other person knows is true.
For instance, LBS finds evidence of an A. WAS says "Your imagining things! There is no one else!" LBS then starts to question whether the evidence is valid or not.
Lots of dysfunctional people in R use the technique to try to do what they want with no consequences. It is sociopathic.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
