I hope settlement goes smooth from here. I found it helpful to do a list of stuff I needed to do in the lead to moving out.
The memories hurt, but it'll be ok mate.
I think your XW also puts personal happiness at all cost first, in contrast to your sister. It's a selfish mindset, but look around and everywhere is spruiking finding your personal happiness, you dont need a man, and divorce is ok.
Keep that lighthouse shining mate.
Great effort on the gym front too.
Cheers DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24