Hey Dan,

I hope settlement goes smooth from here. I found it helpful to do a list of stuff I needed to do in the lead to moving out.

The memories hurt, but it'll be ok mate.

I think your XW also puts personal happiness at all cost first, in contrast to your sister. It's a selfish mindset, but look around and everywhere is spruiking finding your personal happiness, you dont need a man, and divorce is ok.

Keep that lighthouse shining mate.

Great effort on the gym front too.

Cheers DS


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24