I think having separate conferences is like we are not mature enough to put our kids first before ourselves. We don't have to get along, I would prefer we did, but we are 4 girls parents.
I’m not sure if I’ve commented much or kept up on your sitch or not. Sometimes they run together plus people sometimes change screen names further confusing me - which does not sometimes take much to do. . But from the 30,000 ft level just looking quickly from the outside, I have to agree with your wife’s statement. Why can’t you go together to something like this? Is this not what co-parenting is all about? What is in the best interest of your kids? And if you really do have rock solid reasons not to go with W, like something really bad happened last time you did or something, why are you scheduling HER appointment? I’m not getting this at all.
What are you trying to accomplish?
What would be best for your children?
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