Personally,I don't think you should answer this question to us, but rather take a deep hard look at yourself and decided if this is working for you.
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Use your time with the kids wisely, and allow her to have her time with them undisturbed.
This works well for me.
I could come here and post about all the things my X wife does that I disagree with. I don't know if that would help me or anyone else. She has bought each of my kids their cars. She has them paying her back until 50%. Not my parenting style. She pays for the insurance. Not my parenting style. Two of the cars have been wrecked. She buys them nicer cars. Not my parenting style. They get new phones every time theirs break. Not my parenting style. I could go on for days. I believe they should work hard and save up for their first POS car and pick it out themselves and earn money to replace the things they break. Different parenting styles. That is OK. I can't control her. I tell my kids they are lucky. I did not get to this point overnight. I focus on what I have control of. I let go of the things out of my control. I can't control her. I let her parent her way and I parent my way. I let her choices go. I stand for the important things. Equal parenting time.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
