On respect, how do I know she is respecting me more?
Because you make decisions based on your core beliefs and are not worried about how she will react. You know and are confident you can handle whatever reaction she has.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712