Newlywed and in crisis

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Ok, so let's play along. Suppose she is in an A. What does that change?

To be honest? I'd D her right away.

That would be the last straw. I am not going to take with that level of disrespect and betrayal from W.

Though that is just talk at the moment, who knows what I'll do for real. Humans are fickle creatures.

One thing I realize from my sitch is that I really do deserve someone better. Someone who wants me for me. What kind of W decides to leave her H on Day 5 of M. Pffffft.

Don't get me wrong. I miss her and I wish her to be back. However, I also know that she can't return the same. I know I am making changes of my own. She has too. Like many have said in this site: the old marriage has died, either she returns and we build a new one, or I find the strength to let go and find someone better.