Newlywed and in crisis

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I think you've got a great plan of action there. I don't think I would go to the spiritual treatment either though. "Given what W and I are going through right now I don't feel it would be appropriate for me to go, we both need some time and space to think about things."

If W keeps pushing you, "I've already made my decision." Stand tall, don't let her bully you.

Thanks AS.

I wish not to involve the in laws with this. It makes things complicated. They have a different approach and can derail my DB-ing. If only I can make them understand what I am doing. I know I shouldn't reveal my plans, but if only. Then I can get them on the same page and I don't have to feel guilty going against them.

At the moment, W is not pushing me. She doesn't seem to care. Her parents are talking me into coming. Why oh why. I stopped my pursuit, but instead of W pursuing back, her parents are the ones to do so. *facepalm*