Ok here it is, time for the background and get a good place to journal, since I can't seem to do it on my own and I need a place to keep track of stuff so I know what the heck the plan is, what is working, what isn't working, and to get some objectivity since I waffle alot.

Me 35 LD
H 42 normal
M 16yrs
S14, S12, S5

just got an invite from H, more later