Wow, sandi2 thank you so much for responding to my thread. I feel very privileged to get a response from you. I want to thank you for all the time you have spent on this forum. I have read and re-read your welcome threads on wayward wives countless times trying to get an understanding of what is happening in my life right now.
Originally Posted by sandi2
Answer: I don't want to see you, so I really see no reason as we have nothing to discuss as long you are seeing someone else.
This is actually almost exactly what I ended up saying to her (sorry Steve85, I didn't just ignore it). She got upset and told me I was being immature.
Then the next day she finally sent me a message about the divorce papers I had written up, saying she wanted to add a couple things and have a friend look them over. Then nothing after that, so I still just feel like she is continuing to delay it, or maybe it's not a priority to her. I don't know, she just makes very little effort to actually get divorced. She has made plenty of effort to be separated, you would not be able to tell I have a wife if you were just a stranger looking at my life, but no effort to finalize it. She even still continues to pay her portion of the bills which I find very odd, it's all on auto pay, so again, just very little effort, like it's to much work to turn that off or something.
