Thank you guys, I really appreciate the encouragement
hoosjim, you really hit the nail on the head. I am really trying to get out there, be social, talk to people about things, learn about them and just being more open. It's great meeting new friends, but they are just friends, they aren't a life companion, so DBing gets lonely at times, and the sudden attention from a woman was certainly exciting. You are totally right too about getting perspective on your wife, my wife complained of being lonely, and the sudden attention from another man I'm sure was exciting for her.