No no. The man has many ways of showing attraction outside of being an octopus! Body language, eye contact, saying “I’d really like to see you again” etc.

Flirting!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced