The only thing that is important to me, like really important that if I did have sex early, to not confuse it with an emotional bond. And the reason that I’m choosing to hold out is that I want there to be an emotional connection and not just sex. And I know the difference.
You all got to remember. I have been a dating , single, adult for 12 years. The only other person I slept with was my exH. Sex is going to happen. I wasn’t with this one person for 20 years. It’s a lot different for me. And I have become pretty adept at separating sex from a bond. Trust me, I would love to have sex with one person for the rest of my life ( just not my ex because he was awful)
Anyways, I have respect for “prudes” I have respect for those who like sex and practice it safely.
On an unrelated note, I just kicked @ss and pushed my body to a limit that I didn’t think I could. I held out a really good run pace today without stopping. I thought I might die a few times but I did. I’m getting back to shape again and I haven’t felt this good since 2 years ago before the injuries and surgery.
It’s a win for me.
Last edited by job; 02/05/2010:08 PM. Reason: edited language
