I don’t know that you’re doing “it” wrong and am not even saying you are. Just saying what you say and what you do often don’t match and you seem to go from zero to 60 in minutes. Yes you backed off for like a day. He may be a legit great guy but I can tell you it’s less often that typical that a girl snuggles up to me on the second date like we’ve been dating for months but when it does happen I know what I’m thinking - and you even paid for dinner. It’s not wrong it’s just maybe dejavu pegs it when she says you’re a hopeless romantic. And you never seem to have bad dates - until months later that is in hindsight. Just my thought.
This does not negate what appears to be a nice second date just that the jury is way more out than you might already hope. That’s all.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D