I have no idea how this honestly being interpreted. Second date, very nice, shared some nice kisses, clothes on, in living room, I pulled the breaks, we hung out and chatted and he went on his merry way? What I meant was he wouldn’t be invited in for sexy time. And if I felt that it was going to happen, he wouldn’t have come in. But he is very respectful . I knew that when I said no, there would be zero pressure. And I was right.
Am I doing this all wrong because I let him in and we missed for a little while?
I am honestly completely just confused. I don’t know how to slow down anymore.
I didn’t make myself available for the second date. I turned him down. We went out again. He went back to his house and nothing “naughty” went on.
I’m lost. I can’t seem to get this right. It’s quite honestly extremely frustrating.