First and foremost, glad you had fun and things went as well as they did. I don’t want to be the one to rain on your parade, but I second what bttrfly said....it was one date, so slow down a little. 2 days ago, you posted that even though he was picking you up, he wouldn’t be invited in after because you were “not there yet” (your words) and now you are full steam ahead making out and saying you are going to try to wait until date 4 but no guarantees. Girl, you’re giving me whiplash. I mean, it is ok if you suddenly realized you were far more attracted than you originally thought but take it slow, let him court, bask in the newness and being treated like a queen.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids