If you love your wife and you want to try to save your marriage, then you don't go out on a date, especially on Valentine's Day. By dating, you are sending her a clear message that you have absolutely no problem w/her being involved with someone else.
Cancel the date, work on yourself and keep the focus on you. Dating is not working on YOU! Step back and regroup.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
