Thank you guys so much! It was awesome. I am going to try to hold out u til the 4th, but no guarantees. I think he had respect for me doing so last night which was good.
I did find out a little more about his divorce. He said it was very amicable. He said he has never ever cheated and his ex never did either. However. He did say she told him “if we don’t divorce one of us is going to cheat” and he said he would have never, but clearly she was. She was telling me about how she has her new found spiritual career and is a “past life regressionist” he said it was too much when he was getting yelled at for stuff he did in another life in the 1400’s. I was cracking up. And he was too, but he was actually serious! This stuff happened! He seems fine with the divorce though. I think the hardest part was him having to give up his house. They sold it. His kids live with him so his 17 year old son can finish out his school year in the same school. His other son lives on campus in state but comes back often. But they do have their own lives and he has freedom. More than me, of course, but he doesn’t seem to be bothered .
I can tell his does like to be the man and court me. And next date is all him, I’m going to let him pay away, hold doors, all that stuff. I like it.
Something so stupid but I like that he is 5’8” we can hold hands comfortable without my arm being held up in the air like it was with Mr. 6’3” I thought it would be hard to get used to the fact he is just a small framed thin guy. Because even though I’m short, I’m curvy and I have muscle. I thought I might not feel that “safe” comfy feeling in his arms. But I most certainly did.
I’m going to try to not get too excited. But I think it’s a good thing when you do look forward to the next date.
