I feel like there should be a way for her to transition to, okay, you've stated your decision for now, so how can we focus on your happiness and wellbeing in the now? My IC sometimes says, How can I support you right now? Or, What kind of support do you need right now? I don't always know how to answer her. I don't see why you couldn't be honest with her and say, you know, "I am confident in my decision for now, though I give myself the freedom to change my mind. This is the kind of support I feel I need this week: xyz." Or just, as you say, "I need support on the path I've chosen." You can let her know it might not be a good fit for you otherwise, but maybe you wouldn't even have to say that. You could just know it. If she doesn't start to meet you where you are, you could reach out to some other ICs.
I’ve already reached out to the counselor who did our one whole discernment session. She said as long as H is fine with it she can take me on as an individual. Since he said “I hope you know I’m never seeing that b**ch again.” I think we’re safe. She’s the one who told me to pick up DR and to come here. She upfront said she can definitely help me on my path. And that she’s not perfect and to be sure to communicate with her if we ever aren’t seeing eye to eye or she’s not meeting my needs supporting me. I think it’s just better that I cut ties and move on.
