My ex and his wife have to get up everyday knowing what their marriage was based on.
That for me is a penance. My ex will never feel that guilt, but I do think his wife feels it. And it hits her harder knowing I’m a wonderful mom and woman, and not the person my ex most likely made me out to be that made it okay in her head to date a married man with a baby on the way
Ginger you are a poster child on how to handle situations like this. You are putting your D s needs far ahead of your own and doing what is in her best interest even if it’s hard on you. You should be so very proud of yourself. You are truly a role model for how to handle things the best way for a child. Oh sure you could make a stand or try to make them pay but the real loser would be your child. Instead she is the real winner. I know I’m hard on you with some actions as I am with anyone but in this case you are really a role model.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
