My H used to get annoyed at me for getting Amazon packages every day like I was somehow wasting all of our money. I'm like yes. Toilet paper, dishwasher detergent, shampoo. Look at my over-the-top spending. And I *honestly* felt like going to Target for fricking toilet paper instead of just shopping online at night in my PJs was like a enormous treat to myself. ha ha! Sorry, not anymore! His A is definitely costing him $$ no matter what happens since Target no longer cuts it for self-care for me.


Me (46) H (42)
M:14 T:18, D9 & D11
4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs
9/20 - present: R and piecing