D, you're on page 12 now, time for a new thread. Post a link to the new one as your last post in this one, and post a link to this one in your first post in the new one. It's helpful to provide a brief summary in the first post in the new one as well. Name it something like "WW dropped S bomb- part 2".
Regarding the MBR, like the others I'm a big proponent of never leaving it in the first place. But once you're out it can cause a real poopstorm if you move back in. It may help in planting some seeds of respect, but she's not going to like it and may really hate it. Especially if you have some kind of written agreement in place. The advice we offer here is just that- advice. It's up to you whether to follow it or not. I think some things like GAL and Sandi's rules are absolute musts, but other things you have to consider the negative impact it may have on your sitch.
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I need to work on validating and detaching as I haven't really started this yet.
Detachment takes time, it's a byproduct of things like GAL. Validating is something you can start right away and should absolutely work on!
