Rooskers, sorry I don´t have any advice for you but I just wanted to say I´ve read your sitch and yours is a tough one, especially compared to mine. You sound like such a great guy and definitely don´t deserve any of this. Sounds like you are being the best person you can be and what a great daughter you have standing up for you like that.

The positive thing about this is that you will come out at the end of this so much stronger and mentally prepared for anything if you use this to grow. And it sounds like you are.

Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019