If she does file first...should I drag it out and play for time and hope to get her to reconsider? Time is money they say. Does the person filing first have an advantage? I'm just considering my options.
I went through and continue the same dilemma. I asked W for time to process what was happening, when I showed I was ready, she is now asking for time.
I met with a L to determine legally why W may not be eager to file. The L did say the longer the wait, the higher the amount of and or duration of alimony is in my state. As far as filing first, the L advised it is easier to file first rather be on the defense. Defending could cost more.
In the end, the pro's are all financial. If the D could be prevent, thats even better financially.
Dragging it out if she does file will cost you more financially. My take...dragging out the D would anger her. Better chance would be to go with the flow, dont resist. It doesnt mean you agree. Also if any terms impact you, by all means battle away.
i completely understand you regarding alimony. WW is looking for a better job so this works in my favor as we've been married over 10 years. The differential is less.
