Hope you have a fun time on your date tonight, G. Just relax and go with the flow. While I agree with everyone who said you shouldn't be buying dinner and he should be treating you, particularly in the beginning, I do admire you for putting it out there that you would treat him if you won and now you are following through with what you said. But, moving forward, don't do that! Make him ask and treat if there is a date 3. And, make him plan it while you are at it to get a feel for how he handles things.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids