I can’t change what my ex and his affair partner/wife did. I can get angry, not forgive them, avoid them, etc. where exactly would that get me?
This woman was in my daughters life at 6 months old. My daughter is now 12 and they have been married for 9 years come April fools day. I could “lay down the law” I could hate them, I could think of ways to Make their lives hell.... where would that get me? No where. That’s my daughter’s Home too over there.
I am very civil and friendly with my ex and his wife. She treats my daughter well. I want their marriage to last because o don’t want my daughter to go through their divorce. My daughter not to long ago came to me and said “ I love that you and daddy get along so well and don’t hate each other. Most divorced parents can’t even be in the same room . It makes me so happy” and that’s all I needed and wanted. It wasn’t about what they did anymore. It was that my daughter was loved and happy and not uncomfortable around all parents and she didn’t have to get that anxiety when we were all coming together for her.
That’s truly all I needed from this this god awful event that occurred in my life.
