Remember, ICs work for you. And if they aren't working for you (see what I did there) do not settle. Get a new IC. People shop around for houses, cars, vacuum cleaners, TVs, etc....but settle for the first IC they land on.
I know you're right. I've been toying with the idea of moving on. I hate the idea of starting from scratch and building a rapport all over again. However, while she was super helpful when I was a blubbering scattered emotional mess as weeks progress and I move through the stages of grief and become further detached but not willing to kick him out she's becoming less and less of what I need right now.
