Hi AS. That is awful about your dad’s stuff being gone. So sorry to hear that.
Re: your (X)GF. TBH...I am sure there are some good things about her but it really does sound like the bad may be outweighing the good here. I’m a mental health therapist... I have all the empathy in the world for people with mental health issues. However, it sounds as if there is also a personality issue...and a character issue. You deserve better AS. You really do. From what you say, there have been many highs and lows in your relationship. Those highs and lows can be very addicting... but they aren’t love... not in the truest sense of the word. Love is kind, forgiving, accepting, and stable... I know your gf is young and beautiful and lots of fun when she is not struggling...but do the fun times really outweigh the bad times?
You give others on here such fantastic advice...what would you say to someone else in your situation? I know we don’t know everything about people’s sitchs on here but I feel like I know enough about yours to say that you deserve better AS. You really do. (((HUGS)))
