Your XW probably feels the rejection from them and due to her past programming from childhood may get stuck for a while until
she tries again..


I think it is difficult for many MLCers to figure it out because they don't get any good advice from the people they speak with or they don't listen to the suggestions of a good therapist if they have one

I like thew way you respond to her and your compassions and patience..really you have tried to make her see the truth here-

and after a bit of reflection...I believe she will come back around


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