Wolf ~ You avoided drama, you stayed calm, and your S had a great time. Sounds like a great day! I know it's hard and emotional but I think it's worth celebrating when you handle things well.
You are wise not to take the bait your XW throws out. It's soooo hard not to bite.
Regardless of what this means for your R with your XW, the above things are really positive and the right path forward.
Thank you. I am trying just to be calm and not let her nonsense bother me anymore. I am finally starting to really detach in the sense that her words or actions won’t dictate how I feel. Every little thing in the past I use to take to heart. I am working real hard to with my d to be understanding and loving to her. I see a little change in her behavior towards me now. I know it will be a while but I truly think she will regret this decision. I am working hard on being the man only a fool would leave. And if she doesn’t regret it that’s fine too. I just want to be a better person, a better dad and a better partner. I will say this, I have learned so much in the last 17 months from my readings and mostly from here. Thank you everyone for helping and always chiming in. I have come a long way but I still have a long way to go. Thank you again everyone for always helping. Sometimes I read your comments 4 and 5 times to really understand what the message is.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
