I found a decent and inexpensive massage place on Groupon, and they'll honor the Groupon price if you pay cash... been going pretty regularly and it is definitely worthwhile to get that touch.
And yes I believe it about the revenge affairs!
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing