OK, so I feel a little less bad about having such a hard time detaching when my H is (and has been for some time) where yours is.

I guess I would just caution you that mine has been basically in that same space-- kind, thoughtful, ultra supportive, spending time with the fam all together, cooking and cleaning and shopping and handing me his phone to do the crossword puzzle together etc... for MONTHS now, and getting better and better every week. It hasn't meant his A is over or he's ready to work on the MR yet, or if he'll ever be there. They say a marathon not a sprint and I would venture to guess that this is the hill, when it is the hardest not to beg him to knock this all off. You know you're amazing at this though so keep it up.


Me (46) H (42)
M:14 T:18, D9 & D11
4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs
9/20 - present: R and piecing