How do you guys feel about divorcing on grounds of adultery instead of irreconcilable differences? She claims she is going to represent herself and she can't wait to talk to my lawyer. LOL She is so arrogant right now. I don't want to push the issue too much because she is willing to take $8000 or the debt and give me only $6000 of the debt. Split the house 50/50 and joint shared custody of our 15 year old son. I'm not sure what he is working up but my lawyer told his assistant to include her relationship with the OM in the papers. I know this will make her pissed off. If she was to fight it I believe I may be entitled to more of the debt. For example, she put her College classes on a credit card and I may be liable to pay for half of that as it may be included as marital debt. Add that $10,000 and she is willing to assume $18,000 of the credit card debt and me only $4000. I'm thinking this is a pretty sweet deal up front.
I need to be as amicable as possible for the sake of my son. Am I wrong on this or am I continuing to be weak. I just paid my lawyer on Thursday and I had to get back to work. All I told him was that I wanted her out of the house and she has failed to leave.
I am also in the process of putting the house on the market. I've got to do some things to the outside of the house first and they will take picture and I will sign the papers with the realtors.
