Originally Posted by wayfarer
What title fits the person who used to be my best friend and lover, who is now my good looking roommate who bangs some chick I don't know, but is becoming a better husband in all the other aspects of our relationship that I wish he had done prior?

I think being unable to find an appropriate column to put him in is what made me a little uncomfortable with his comments.


Ugh, Wayfarer, this is my sitch too. H and I have the perfect roommate relationship, better than it’s been for years...and complete with compliments about my underwear, etc. This sitch is so frustrating to deal with. sometimes I can’t work out why this is sooo hard.


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020