Ginger... Despite this recent snafu, I still think he is a pretty great guy. Not because of what he says but because of how he lives his life. I’ve thought about this a lot and my best guess, given all of the information that I have, is that he is worried about how much we have been talking and that if we meet too soon, he might find himself in a relationship he is not sure he is ready for or has time for. So... I think he is need of some space and I’m going to give it to him.
KML & Bttrfly... Good advice. I don’t think he is a bad guy. I know too many good things about him and the way his 20-year marriage ended says a lot about who he is at his core. I just think he is scared he has bitten off more than he can chew and is trying to slow things down...not is a great way but I see the intent behind it.
Yes to all the above because this is where I am at with the girl I’m dating. Luckily she’s like Ginger and is aware and is not going to make any sudden movements that will send me running for the hills. Patience is the name of the game.
