Originally Posted by wooba
... Letting him stay or not, you need to let your emotions settle first. You are full of resentment right now, and you shouldn’t make any decisions when your feelings are running high.



I am definitely full of resentment and not really sure at this point when those feelings will subside. I will try to wait until my emotions are not running high. I had already started preparing my speech justifying why he needs to leave ASAP.


H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years