Jac,

Those were great responses. They do sound slightly warmer and less vindictive. I will rethink my response.

I am still generally confused with what kind of tone I should be having when interacting with W through text. I know I should be direct, brief, and vague. However, depending on the type of WAW, the tone should be different..? I read that for WW you need to be rather strict and business like..? But for certain WAW, you need to sound much more gentle..?

But what about when in NC? When it’s necessary to break NC and respond. Should it be a cold reply?


M: 28
W: 30
T: 2 years
Married: Nov 2019
BD: 5 days after wedding (I know right?)