Peace and joy continue to beckon

[DnJ]

Hello Grace

The weekend sounds great. Wine, Jenga, and sawing down tree limbs while standing atop a ladder. Then more wine at a Super Bowl party!!! Sounds delushous!

You have really good questions and observation regarding the possible D and your feelings, thoughts, and beliefs. Answers will present themselves.

For what it’s worth #2 is pretty smart; very business like. You just need to figure out if or when you want/need to proceed.

If I am truthful? I want reconciliation. But not with the old H, for sure.

That is one of the clearest statement of your desires you’ve wrote. There is something powerful about writing that out. It’s beyond thoughts and feelings. This is deep values and conviction territory. Casting off fear, and embracing you.

Putting that into written form elevates that hopeful desire within. You are imagining what it could be. And in seeing that, know what requisites H has to meet. It is a point where you can assess your headings and goals; are they inline with your wants?

Keep a hopeful desire. You mentioned it, I will affirm and encourage - keep expectations at zero. A deadline or timeline will kill hope and create resentment from your own desires. Time is your friend not an adversary.

As you well know, time will bring answers.

I agree with DV, you are very much in the driver’s seat of your life. I see your “cars” lined up rather nicely.

DnJ