Wow Grace!!! Just wow!!! Your attitude and patience are admirable. You are truly in the driver’s seat of your own life and I hope it feels as good as it reads. IMO...no rush to do anything. The ball is in his court. I don’t think you need to apply any pressure whatsoever. Just keep on keeping on and let him do what he feels he needs to do. I suspect that IF the two of you decide to make a go of it, M 2.0 will be very, very different. (((HUGS)))