Certainly not defending M but I think J9 has a good point. I do think M really loved you but I don’t think he was evolved enough to know how to show it or deal with it. It’s sad, really, but you deserve a man who has done the work and KNOWS how to love.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids