Do not call her! You cannot control what she is doing...but you can control how you react to her behavior. You shouldn't have been snooping. Snooping doesn't do anything but make a person angry because you find things that you shouldn't have.
Just leave it be. You are not her father and you do not want to come across as such. Take a step back, breathe and do not say or do anything when you are emotional. It is best to wait a few days and then revisit.
Go back and re-read the detachment thread. Detachment does not happen in one day, not even a week, but a steady walk in the right direction of not reacting to her antics.
Now, breathe! Focus on you and leave her to her business.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
