You are stronger than you realize and when you discover this you won’t need to “lean” on anyone. Oh and wait until he finds out how much he’s going to have to pay you now that you won’t agree to his divorce fantasy. Lifetime alimony (probably), child support, etc. so yes the universe will balance things out. I’m seeing this in my own life after my H of 28 years left me for OW. He appears to be living the dream but he’s working 2 jobs, drinking heavily, sneaking around, thinks I don’t know, he’s so stupid. I filed my taxes married filing separately wait till he finds how how much he owes. He’s going to hate me but these are the consequences of screwing over an entire family. He messed with the wrong woman is all I can say.
